CALENDULA PADS – For swelling, pain, heat. Make 5-10 pads 6 weeks before due date.
Calendula flowers promote healing and are soothing when applied topically.
- Calendula Mixture: Make tea from dried calendula leaves (1 full tea ball per cup water steeped for 10 min) or use tincture (20-30 drops per cup water). Add 1-2 drops of lavender essential oil or some lavender tea to mixture.
- Partially dip maxi pads – preferably long, organic – in calendula mixture briefly, just to soak top layer. Another option is to use a sprayer to wet the tops.
- Freeze pads in bowls so they’re curved like the female body. Store in Ziplocs (labeled with your name) in freezer.
- Bring the pads to birth-place! Hospitals and birthing centers have freezers.
- Apply immediately after birth.
Soothing and healing for swelling, pain, abrasions, tears, bruising. It’s safe to use with stitches. This can be prepared during early labor or ahead of time and frozen/refrigerated.
- Fill a peri- or spray-bottle with calendula mixture (above), a healing solution (below) or warm water.
- Hospitals will provide a peri-bottle. A spritz bottle works too.
- Squirt solution on perineum after every washroom use, shower/bath, or in between if extra relief is needed. Do not rinse solution off.
- If urination burns then squirt during urination or pee in the bath.
- Allow the area to dry between applications. Air-time or even a cool blow drier can be helpful.
- Note: if the rectum is sore or stitched, support the perineum with a cloth during bowel movements (like pooping into a cloth).
- Soak your perineum in a bath for 15 minutes, 3 times daily. Shallow water is fine.
- Add Epsom salt and if you wish to use herbs, add 1-2 cups raw herbs or healing herb tea, ¼ cup tincture, or up to 5 drops of pure essential oil. If you wish to use plain water then spray the healing solution after the bath.
- Some women like cool water for inflammation while others find warm water soothing. Experiment with temperatures but avoid extremes during the initial postpartum days, and keep the rest of your body warm.
- Do not sit on a donut-shaped vessel in the bath as it adds pressure.
Calendula is healing, along with other herbs such as comfrey, lavender, witch hazel, tea-tree, yarrow. Feel free to ask me about the various healing properties of the different herbs. Nice sitz-bath blends can be purchased – look for an Epsom salts base with herbs or pure essential oils; no fragrance or additives. There are some nice soothing perineum sprays on the market, such as Earth Mama Angel Baby New Mama Bottom Spray, sold in Regina at Head-to-Heal Wellness in Cathedral, or Hello Baby in East.
RECOVERY FROM DIFFICULT BIRTH
After a difficult birth follow the above recommendations plus:
- Keep knees together as much as possible for the first 2 weeks, even while walking
- Avoid stairs
- Lift nothing heavier than the baby
- Allow area to “breath” – air time or cotton panties (no synthetics)
- Avoid sitting or standing for long periods of time
- Avoid perfumes, chemicals
- Avoid straining on the toilet – good nutrition and lots of water, support perineum with a cloth during bowel movements (like pooping into a cloth)
- See a Physiotherapist who specializes in women’s pelvic floor to heal pelvic floor muscles; recover from perineum tears; avoid or heal incontinence, painful intercourse and pelvic pain
- Consider seeing a complimentary practitioner who specializes in and is experienced with maternal postpartum recovery, such as a Webster certified chiropractor or an osteopath, to help ensure pelvic organs, bones, ligaments are healthy and aligned.
SPECIAL INFANT CARE FOLLOWING DIFFICULT BIRTH
- Lots of frontal contact, skin-to-skin if possible; helps establish breastfeeding and is reassuring for baby. Babies who are held feed better, poop and pee more, and are therefore less prone to jaundice and other illnesses.
- See a complimentary practitioner who specializes in and is very experienced with newborn care, especially if there was any trauma to baby’s head (vacuum, forceps, caesarean, malposition, and/or long “pushing stage”) e.g. chiropractor, cranio-sacral therapist, osteopath.